Posts by Helen McMullan
Celebrating Diversity: Honouring Love, Courage and Progress
As I was watching the Festival of Remembrance at the weekend, I was deeply moved to see the 25th anniversary of the lifting of the ban on gay, lesbian, and bisexual personnel serving openly in the armed forces being recognised and celebrated. A powerful “laying of the drums” ceremony was performed by eight LGBTQIA+ servicemen…
Read MoreFive Myths About Celebrant-Led Ceremonies
When it comes to weddings, funerals, naming ceremonies, and celebrations of life, many people still aren’t quite sure what a celebrant actually does. Because of that, a few myths have popped up over the years — and I hear them all the time! So, let’s set the record straight. Here are five of the most…
Read MoreHow to Personalise a Funeral Ceremony with Meaning and Love
Last week, I had the honour of leading an intimate, heartfelt funeral. In the quiet moments that followed, I found myself reflecting on what made it so deeply meaningful. When someone we love dies, we often find ourselves searching for ways to honour their memory in a way that truly reflects who they were. A…
Read MoreSymbolic Rituals
Symbolic Rituals How things have changed since I tied the knot back in 1989! Our wedding was a traditional affair – a country church, hymns, prayers, and a vicar leading the ceremony. But we couldn’t resist adding a few personal touches (to the slight confusion of some older guests!). My sister-in-law sang a Chris de…
Read MoreWhat is a Naming Ceremony?
A naming ceremony is a joyful, non-religious celebration that honours a new name, a new life, or a new chapter. It’s a meaningful way to bring loved ones together and mark a special milestone – whether that’s the arrival of a new baby, the blending of families, or the affirmation of one’s true identity. 💫…
Read MoreThe Seven Stages of Grief
As I navigate the loss of my much-loved nephew, I’ve been reflecting on the unpredictable, often overwhelming journey of grief. It’s a path none of us can avoid—it’s the price we pay for deep love and connection. In sharing my thoughts, I hope to offer some comfort and insight for others who may be walking…
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