Five Myths About Celebrant-Led Ceremonies by Helen McMullan

When it comes to weddings, funerals, naming ceremonies, and celebrations of life, many people still aren’t quite sure what a celebrant actually does. Because of that, a few myths have popped up over the years — and I hear them all the time!

So, let’s set the record straight. Here are five of the most common myths about celebrant-led ceremonies — and the truth behind them.

Myth 1: “A celebrant-led wedding ceremony isn’t legal.”

This one depends on where you live. In some regions, celebrants can legally marry couples. In others, you’ll need a quick signing at the registry office to make it official.

But here’s the important part: your celebrant-led ceremony is the real celebration. It’s the moment when your story is told, your vows are shared, and your loved ones are gathered around you. The paperwork is just admin — the ceremony is where the magic happens.

Myth 2: “It’ll feel less meaningful than a church ceremony.”

Actually, it’s quite the opposite. Because celebrants aren’t bound by set wording, religious rules, or rigid scripts, we can create something that feels deeply personal — whether it’s a wedding, a vow renewal, or a naming ceremony.

Want spiritual touches? Symbolic rituals? Poetry, music, or even a touch of humour? It’s all about you. The ceremony reflects your personality, values, and story, making it more meaningful than anything off-the-shelf.

Myth 3: “Celebrant ceremonies are all the same.”

No two celebrant ceremonies are ever alike — and that’s the whole point! I take the time to really get to know you: your quirks, your love story, your family dynamics, and even the story of a loved one you wish to honour.

From traditional to modern, formal to fun, intimate to extravagant — every ceremony is designed to feel uniquely yours.

Myth 4: “You can’t include traditions or rituals.”

Oh, you absolutely can — and in fact, most celebrants encourage it! Whether it’s a handfasting, sand ceremony, unity candle, jumping the broom, or something brand new that we dream up together, rituals add depth and meaning.

You can even blend cultural or family traditions with modern ideas. The result? A ceremony that feels authentic and personal, not pulled from a template.

Myth 5: “It’s only for weddings.”

Celebrants don’t just officiate weddings. We also create celebrations of life, funerals, vow renewals, baby namings, commitment ceremonies, and memorials.

Anytime there’s a milestone or a moment to honour, a celebrant can help bring it to life with words, ritual, and storytelling.

The truth?
A celebrant-led ceremony gives you freedom, creativity, and heart. It’s your story, told your way. Whether you’re planning a wedding, saying goodbye to a loved one, or marking a life milestone, a celebrant ensures your ceremony is filled with meaning, warmth, and personal touches you’ll never forget.

Ready to create a ceremony that feels like you?
I’d love to help bring your vision to life. Whether you’re dreaming of a wedding that breaks the mould, a heartfelt celebration of life, or a beautiful ritual to mark a milestone, let’s chat.